Why does it feel like I still have so far to go?
Be persistent! Keep working on your accent
You’re probably tired of hearing feel-good philosophies like, “You can do anything if you set your mind to it.” In reality, it can be disheartening when you set out to improve your communication skills, and you don’t see results right away. But even with big goals like changing your accent, you will see results if you stick to it! So, what’s the trick to keep moving forward with your accent goals and not give up?
Have perspective! Focus on your progress.
Another catchphrase that can be annoying is, “If I did it, you can too!” But the more you focus on how easy it is for other people, the harder it seems for yourself sometimes. So you have to focus on personal progress. Try to notice those little things you never gave yourself credit for. That will feed your self-confidence and give you fuel to push yourself forward.
Set specific goals.
The best way to track your progress and keep your eyes on the road ahead is to set measurable goals for yourself. This can be a challenge with something as gradual and subjective as accent reduction. But there are things you can focus on that will give you a clear idea of how far you’ve come and what’s left in front of you.
One-week goal
Find a friend, family member, or accent coach that can help you polish your pronunciation. Sometimes, people are hesitant to give you the help you need if you don’t tell them you want it. Ask them to correct your pronunciation. Just make sure to be clear about what you’re asking them to do. Maybe you have a friend at work who can help you, but you don’t want him to correct you right in front of your boss. So why not ask him to send you a message with the word or phrase in question so you can get more details from them later?
Two-month goal
Learn how to enunciate the vowel sounds clearly. This can be harder than it seems. There are a lot of little things that happen in the mouth to make American vowel sounds unique. Look them up or ask an accent coach to help you discover them. Now, let’s be clear: the idea here is to understand how to make these vowel sounds, not become completely consistent with them. That will have to be a long-term goal.
One-year goal
Learn all of the vowel and consonant sounds in full detail. Then, keep reviewing them briefly every day so that you can become more and more consistent with them. At this point, you should be able to hear things you didn’t hear before, such as the big differences between the way native speakers pronounce a sound and non-natives. You’ll also begin to notice variations in the way native speakers themselves pronounce things. All of these observations will help you to make informed decisions about the way you want to be heard.
Two-year goal
Learn to speak in a clear, polished way that makes it easy for your listeners to understand you. It will now be less likely for people to have an issue with your accent. Of course, there may still be traces of your former pronunciation patterns, but nothing major. With some extra effort and time, you may even make it to the level where people are surprised to find out you are not a native English speaker.
Be patient. Accent reduction done right takes time.
Another thing to keep in mind is that everyone has different capabilities and circumstances. So, you may need to move the above goals slightly up or down depending on the time and energy you are willing to dedicate. But these goals are reasonable even if you do not consider yourself to be good with languages or accents.
Success! Reach your accent goals
You can do the same thing. You can be successful with improving your accent or communication style. Yes, it will take an investment of time to produce the desired changes. But every journey starts with a single step. And small steps get you farther than none.
Take a moment to assess what you really want to achieve with your accent, communication, and diction goals. Then, write out a plan with clear, reasonable goals. Why not sign up for accent classes to get you started? Professional help is certainly a good idea. But don’t forget that the power to make change lies in your hands. You can do it!